Unreactive Alpha

Why would women evolve to love men who have supreme control of their emotional states? What value could a man who isn’t filled with fear in a dangerous world have?

My theory is that a mate who is man enough to not be scared off by a bitch shield is more likely to not be scared off when the next tribe over does their Friday night pillage thing.

Scientists of the Apollo Program have obtained footage of a stone cold bad ass. Somewhere in Ukraine, an artillery strike hits feet away, chaos erupts. Soldiers and press run for cover. Not Commander Givi. He takes a short drag from his cigarette. Then he picks up a piece of shrapnel, still hot. Givi ran out of fucks to give long ago. This is the stuff female orgasms are made of.

4 Thoughts on Game and Black Girls

To me, black girls are sexy. As fuck. I haven’t seen a ton of literature on black girls in the ‘sphere so I want to throw out some of my observations.

1. Blacks are the Canaries in the Coal Mine
Everything that’s wrong with the average western woman, when dealing with black women you are dealing with that times ten. Just as we saw single motherhood, unemployment, and crime skyrocket in the black community before it spread to society at large; we see carousal riding, contempt towards men, and flakiness at astonishing rate among black women. Its so bad that many good (read: gainfully employed) black men decide to only date outside their race. These men are highly sought after by black women, so its not like they don’t have that as an option. They are simply deciding that a black woman is not worth the drama. These men are branded as race traitors or on the “down low”. In reality those men that opt out are simply capable of risk/reward analysis. If, like me, despite the shortcomings you can’t resist the lure of gold in those mahogany hills, read on.

2. Drama That You Can’t Be Prepared For
Your typical western female thinks of herself as a princess, each day an episode of a soap opera. You are merely a player in the grand epic that is her life. Now, make that a western female who is hot, and the requirement of drama and turmoil is exponentially increased. Now, make that a BLACK western female who is hot, and you have all the ingredients necessary to get yourself shot over some bullshit. Never under estimate the amount of bipolar a black female will throw your way. Most black women are raised by their mothers. A woman who chooses single motherhood clearly makes poor decisions and research overwhelmingly shows they make bad parents. Often black women never know what it is and how to have a healthy relationship with a man. This causes all sorts of trouble for both sexes, but if you are a moderately attractive girl, you never have to pay the piper and that means you never have to learn a better way.
One key way gaming black girls is different is their shit tests. Of course all races of girls give shit tests. When talking about a black girl, its more likely than it is with other races that her shit test is of the ‘You Shall Not Pass’ variety. That is to say she is not giving you a fitness test, she is just starting drama. Drama, when combined with already present social dysfunction (both American and Black American varieties) you end up with drama that can easily get you killed or locked up.

3. The Ever Present Alpha
If your sexual strategy is to be Alpha in order to access quick and easy sex, awesome. If you want to use that on black girls there are a couple things you should know. In the black community there is both a shortage and abundance of black men. The shortage comes from the fact that more black women than black men go to college. Additionally, way more black men have criminal records which cause problems when looking for a job. Under these conditions black women have a much easier time of achieving economic success than black men. This gap creates a situation where, due to hypergamy, most black men are invisible to black women. Your typical black woman wants a man with a better job title and more money than her. Mathematically, its impossible for every professional black woman to get a professional black man. This leads to interracial dating as well as the few black men who meet the criteria becoming tang lottery winners. Those few lottery winners naturally adopt an attitude of pussy abundance. That attitude of abundance gives them an alpha attitude they otherwise wouldn’t have. In addition to this we must recognize the availability and acceptance of thugs and athletes as attractive mates. This means when attempting to date a black girl you are competing with a larger than normal percentage of alphas.

4. Independent Baby Mamas
The reality is these chicks have kids. Not all. But enough women have kids before 24 to make it an issue. For many guys this is a deal breaker. For some men, a woman with kids is only good for a pump and dump. Whatever your feelings on the matter, a woman with kids presents a unique set of problems. Dating women with kids is an issue addressed quite thoroughly around the web. If you want to date black women, I’d suggest you read up on it because you are going to encounter this a lot.
These woman with kids are lauded as heroes. They of course are the driving forces of societal collapse but whatever. They fancy themselves as independent despite the array of provisioning mechanisms provided by the state that enables them to live their every day lives. This attitude is a real issue for those wanting to ride the dark horse. The question the black woman will ask of you is “what can you do for me?” In terms of provisioning, the answer is nothing. Beta Provider game is dead in general but especially dead for black women, You will get no points for being stable and generous with black women. They see it for what is is, simping. You may get credit for it after they hit the wall. The problem with that is, black women age really well. Often times the black woman won’t hit the wall in a catastrophic way until her forties. By that time they are damaged goods and spoiled milk.

I plan on writing more about black women. They are my kryptonite. I really do love them. Not their personalities. Not as people. Other than that it’s all love.

30 Second Drill: Owning the Awkward Silence

The dreaded awkward silence. First off, its not real. Silence is a thing. It has no personality or intent. It is not malevolent. The difference between silence and an awkward silence is perceived. That is to say, it is internal. It is entirely possible for two people to experience the same moment and one person feels normal while the other person attaches to the moment the experience of being awkward.

When gaming chicks, a common pitfall is running out of things to say. As you develop your charisma and conversational skills this will happen less and less. But, even when you’re a silver tongued devil, occasionally the perfect thing to say will not come to you with lightning quickness. And it gets quite. The novice will struggle to fill the void. Desperate to not be thought of as awkward. What the novice must remember is that the reason it is silent is both he and the girl are silent. The chick is likely feeling the same type of anxiety. She feels that SHE ran out of things to say.
Nobody can make you feel anything. Embarrassment, feeling awkward, fear, these are all things we do to ourselves. Once you decide to stop doing those things to yourself, they stop happening.

If we decide not to feel awkward, and we realize that the girl we are trying to game feels awkward herself, what does the silence become. From out perspective it becomes just a moment. A chance to reflect on what she’s said. An opportunity to take the conversation another way. A good way to get a girl wrapped in that “swept up” feeling they so desire is to interrupt a deep conversation with a long pause, an intense look, and grab her hand and bounce her to a new location.
From her perspective you are showcasing your manly strength. Even though no words have been said you still appear comfortable and confident. She’s freaking out trying to figure out if she offended you, if you like her, what she’s going to say next. Its great

The 30 Second Drill
I discovered this because I’m an asshole and actually get a kick out of making people uncomfortable. Once I used strong frame to inoculate myself against feeling awkward I realized I could wield silence as a weapon of torture. I expect the reader to use it to free themselves of the belief that silences are anything other than silent.
While having a one on one conversation, when a response is expected of you, stop talking and slowly count to 30
One Mississippi
Two Mississippi
Three Mississippi
Do you feel it? That’s power building. You are rock solid, expressing nothing. Maybe looking pensive.
Fifteen Mississippi
Sixteen Mississippi
At this point she’s asking if you heard her. What you think about it. You look off with a 1000 yard stare
Twenty Mississippi
Twenty One Mississippi
Her hamster is running on heisenberg meth. The silence is unbearable. At this point you’re just being rude.
Twenty Seven Mississippi
Twenty Eight Mississippi
STAND YOUR POST SOLDIER!!! HOLD THE BLOODY LINE!!!!!!!
Thirty
Resume normal conversation as if nothing happened. If she asks jut say you were thinking about what she said. Revel in the look of relief she shows when you continue talking

And that’s it. You’re free. Silence is your bitch now.

More TInder Games

My first post about tinder was during the honeymoon phase. I had just gotten into the tinder game. Its hard not to fall in love with an app that delivers tang to your front door. Now that the afterglow has worn off I wanted to get into some of the nuts and bolts of tinder.

When a female friend of mine told me she had 700 matches in a few days I didn’t believe her. She sent me a screen shot. Here it is:

Profiles of Alpha: Russel Brand

Enjoy Russel Brand laying down the man sauce thick in the msnbc studio.

Note Russel is the Alpha cool, composed, and funny; yet firm and competent.

Blonde is the Alpha Female with soaked knickers.

British chick is the resentful beta female, a lifetime of playing second fiddle.

Other guy is a beta orbiter desperate for female approval.

While the world is burning, these are the people who are supposed to bring us the news…god help us

A Strategy for Smashing LMR: The Pantie Peeler

“There is no teacher but the enemy”
-Ender’s Game

If you are a man you have been victim to a woman using the promise of sex to get you to do something. Usually, that situation ends with you doing some slave work and her not giving you the panties. In the spirit of promoting gender equality I will reveal the ancient mystical power of the covert contract. I present to you the Apollo Pantie Removal Method.

Learning From Some Guys Failure

This is a video of a guy going for, and getting shut all the way down on an end of the night kiss. Be warned, its painful to watch. 

This chick is not on the fence. There’s probably nothing he could do during his kiss attempt that would undo everything he’s done that day. But if I were coaching him, this is what we’d work on. Here’s a list of mistakes I think this guy makes, focusing on the attempted kiss close.

-First, the obvious. Don’t take a girl you’re not juicing on a date. I’m assuming this was a typical blue pill date (read he paid for it) based on the fact that he takes her not just home, but all the way to the door. Unless he’s cool with blowing money, he should go ahead and find out if he’s gonna get played BEFORE he pays.

-Body language. If I were coaching him, I’d tell him to stand up straight, and stop rocking from side to side. His body language makes me think this would have been his first kiss ever.

-Go inside. What am I gonna do on your porch? Be bold. Explore that unknown apartment. Ask to use the bathroom. Even though its trite, it works because when you’re out drinking, people have to pee. Its life. The Geneva Convention pretty much says you can use her bathroom for anything up to and including throwing up. Once inside you have a much better chance off making it pop off since you have more privacy. No way he could have known this, but she’s not going to want to kiss on the porch in front of the camera. Which of course is not an issue inside.

-Waiting till the end of the date to kiss a girl is some movie fairy tale crap we’ve been force fed for years. In reality, guys who do well with women are usually given the option to kiss and raw dog well before any potential date is mentioned.

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Thirst Traps

Thirst traps are set and forget shit tests. Women use them to weed out the over eager beta boys. The genius thing about them is that a woman can set a trap, and watch as the men flock to it. Men who show themselves to be too thirsty, too early, aren’t taken to the tang tent.

Examples of thirst traps:
-cleavage
-slutty instagram pictures
-snapchat
-when girls attempt to distract you by dancing near you
-late night text messages of the pinging variety
-slutty outfits
-eye contact
-tongue rings
-and many many more

You may have noticed the most fucked thing about this list. They are all things you would think are green lights to go to pound town. Thirst traps are so effective because they are the same things a girl who is DTF or at least interested would do. Women love attention. Fucking love it. Likes on social networking are like crack to them. They get a thrill out of just being looked at.

When encountering a thirst trap in the wild, ignore it. You can’t beat it. Its a lose/lose situation. Either she isn’t DTF and just wants to bask in compliments before she friend zones you OR she is DTF but you took yourself out the running by being thirsty.

Ignore girls on all social media unless you are in an interaction that is leading somehow towards sex. Nobody gets laid commenting on photos. You’re just feeding her ego, so that when you see her in person she not only thinks she’s a hard 10, she thinks ur a 0 cuz you’re constantly orbiting her.
In person, keep your cool. Ignore her sexual displays. The man who hasn’t seen tits and a tongue ring up close before is not the man she wants to bang. That doesn’t mean don’t treat her as a sexual being. Just, don’t get sucked into a sexual state too early.

That is all.

Perfect Woman

How to Know She Doesn’t Care

Once a young player gets a little game, he’s got to ask himself what he wants to get out of his relationships with women. For me, I prefer to have 3 slots on my depth chart.

A – Main Bitch – aka girlfriend. Has most of the attributes I really value in a woman

B – Side Bitch – gets the call when my gf is unavailable to or unable to give me something I want

C – Flavor of the Day – whatever girls I might slide down on at random

Slots (heh) B and C serve at my pleasure and change frequently. Slot A is, although usually vacant (where I revert to a five slot shuffle plan), a little more important, . But for the times when we might want to fill that slot, I wanted to share one of the tools I use to screen a girl when I think she might fit into Slot A.

What’s my favorite food?
Where did I grow up?
Who is my best friend?

Asking a girl basic biographical information about yourself is a quick way to gauge her interest level in you. If she’s into to you, those facts will be important to her. Thus, she will remember them. When someone cares about somebody or something, they can speak extemporaneously on it all night. When they don’t care, they won’t listen when it comes up in the first place. I’ve had girls say they loved me, wanted marriage and a baby but couldn’t answer simple questions about somebody they had talked to regularly for months. 

If you know who her favorite musical artist is and she doesn’t know yours. If you know what her parents do for a living, but all she knows is that you do something with cars. Basically, information asymmetry is a red flag that she doesn’t care about you. This test will eliminate 99% of women you think you might date seriously. Most, modern American women are self absorbed to a degree that deserves clinical attention. Moreover, they are taught to love themselves over all things, and they do a damn good job of it. 

She either didn’t bother to listen to what you said the first time, never asked, or forgot. These are the same girls who can recite the last three seasons of meaningless drama on the latest housewives show. People take care to remember what they think matters.

Typically, a woman doesn’t care about you. She cares about how you make her feel. In love, as all other dealings with the opposite sex, the male is a utility. A tool to serve the woman. If she doesn’t fail our little quiz, this doesn’t mean she cares. At least not in the way a man cares for a woman. But, it does mean she’s at least investing some effort. Which is a starting point.