If you’ve got a good wing man or friends who aren’t socially awkward women will be introduced to you. Since we like women, this a good thing. Let’s look at how we can handle this like men and secure the tang.
You’re at a party, your friend introduces you to Ivanna, a woman he works with. She’s a hard nine with long legs, slender hips and an exotic looking face.
Average Joe Response:
Joe is in the corner eye fucking girls from a distance when his friend approaches with tang in tow. Joe straightens up when he sees them approaching and self consciously clutches his beer to his chest. Joe joyfully tell her how good it is to finally meet her. After the introduction Joe spends the next thirty minutes being painfully polite while conducting a job interview. Ivanna excuses her self to go to the bathroom. She walks straight to a group of friends a few feet away.
Apollo Response (indirect):
Apollo is in the center of the room telling an interesting story to a friend or an audience. He continues the story even when friend and Ivanna arrive forcing them to wait for a pause in the conversation. Upon introduction Apollo is polite but distant. He doesn’t extend a hand or hug. He smiles and says “nice to meet you” then returns to telling his story. After he turns his back to her to return to his story Ivanna lingers in his space for a moment before tip toeing off.
Solo Response (direct):
Solo is getting his Kettle on the rocks refilled when he’s introduced to Ivanna. He talks to her for a few minutes. He makes a few jokes and volunteers little information about himself. He establishes a sexual tone to their interaction and whispers his next joke directly into her ear. After looking at his cell phone he excuses himself and does not return.
How the Night Turns Out
Joe goes home alone. He usually does. Joe is already in a hole because he’s by himself. There’s nothing wrong with rolling solo, But Joe doesn’t have the confidence and body language. Joe clutches his beer like a security blanket. He thinks the beer makes him look cool. It doesn’t. His constant oggling of women and bad posture give away his anxiety. Ivanna is so used to beta drones talking her ear off she doesn’t remember him the next day even though they spoke for half an hour. She knows a gentleman tries to “get to know girls” that he likes but for some reason its unattractive to her when men try to socialize with her as if they are both women.
Apollo starts off ahead. When Ivanna walks up she sees he’s not only accepted in the group (social proof), he’s a leader in it (showing his status). She also should see how well dressed Apollo is. By not immediately stopping his story to acknowledge newcomers he is saying “Me and my story are important, they can wait. I’m the man.” When Ivanna is finally introduced, Apollo is not acting like an asshole. Its just at the moment he isn’t handing out any pussy passes to his valuable time. When he turns his shoulder on Ivanna, she is infuriated and aroused. Men don’t normally treat her like that. She spends an hour talking to Joe clones hoping Apollo will see and get jealous. All the while plotting how she will get to him.
Solo gets a bonus point for not drinking beer. While others cling to their friends, Solo smoothly navigates the party with an air of confidence you can smell. Ivanna wants to get to know him because most of the guys in the party want to quiz her but Solo keeps the interaction light and fun. Just as she lost in a sea of positive emotion, he leaves.
Most guys only have a few nights a week to relax. Why they would want to spend it gaming unreceptive chicks is beyond me. Solo and Apollo both get laid. They get laid because vagina is not the priority. Its an added bonus to a night out. They both know its a small party. Odds are they will bump into Ivanna again. Because they have already defied her expectations, the next time they see her, she will be chasing them. The beauty of their two methods is even if Ivanna isn’t receptive, they have invested at most a few minutes in her.